Question to ponder…
When there were two people in a relationship why is there always one person who has the upper hand? Why does it always seem that one person has more control over the relationship than the other? Are you ever really on even playing ground?
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November 4, 2008 at 6:03 pm
meleah rebeccah
Oh man….The Games. I hate the games. I dont understand how to ‘play’ and I never ‘win’ or have the upper hand.
I dont even know how to get the upper hand.
November 5, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Oscar
Your upper hand is long distant. “out of reach”. You need a relationship that is local so you can stand by it and control it.
November 7, 2008 at 10:34 pm
Sawan
Tough question! Commenting on relationships is always tricky. The reason being relationships deal with hell lotsa emotions!
In a normal world, theory states that opposite poles attract. The theory pours light in every walk of life. Men normally gets attracted to women and vice versa. Like wise in a relationship, there is always a taker and a giver. Its not necessary that the one who takes always remains a taker. The more frequently they switch roles, the better the relationship would be! Problems arises when one among the two chooses to remain in the role they play and forces the other to remain the same.